"Very rarely do any of us want loss to hurt, especially at first. But we can learn from loss and grow. Many of us have been monsters in the past. But we choose our own futures. If you liked someone thinking you were not the monster, there are futures you can chose on that road. But they are hard roads. Full of rocks and roots to trip you. It takes work, overcoming the roots that want to pull you down. And while sometimes someone can offer you a hand up, offer you help, there is no palanquin or ship that can take you the whole way. It is a journey you must make. Only those who truly want it stand a chance. But many times the road might be offered to us. Even when we thought we passed it too long ago to turn back."