"I think what is intimidating is up to the person who is or is not intimidated. I do not know that we can ever decide for ourselves how much we will or will not intimidate others. I know many people who are not intimidated by anything, for example. And I have met some who are intimidated by almost everyone else. But even putting that aside, I do not think that what others think should be the main deciding factor in how you choose to look for yourself. What would make you happy with your appearance?"
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