[He laughs softly, a warm sound rather than condescending.]

Yes- it means ideal, peaceful.

[He goes on to nod once more, offering his agreement.]

It is hard to imagine this place ever being home in full, when there are many of us who have things to do elsewhere, but if what we are told is true, then our waking selves are still carrying on about their business, doing what needs to be done. Still, it does not ease the anxiety in my heart, not knowing precisely what goes on while we are here- not being able to see what goes on with my own eyes. As you say, it is a ‘tough one.’